10. Trying to stuff two tons of fertilizer into a quarter-ton pick up<\/p>\n
\tWhen I got back to Florida, I stepped into a whirlwind. Not a dust devil or the dilemma of dealing with too many miles. This was a whirlwind of change \u2013 figuring out \u201cwhat to leave in, what to leave out\u201d \u2013 how to downsize from a three bedroom, two bath house with an oversized double garage and outbuilding, into a 280 SF of RV. Obviously, this was going to require getting rid of stuff \u2013 lots of stuff. I\u2019d lived in an RV for 10 of the last 15 years, but for those 10 years in an RV I also had extra storage. For several years, I had used part of a friend\u2019s storage shed, then I leased an RV lot in SE NM that included a large storage shed and a second building referred to as a casita (little house) where I kept all my books, a couch, desk, chair\u2026 You get the idea. Then three years ago, I sold the RV lot and RV and bought the house. Which I began to fill up. I never acquired as much \u201cstuff\u201d as most folks (friends referred to my home as \u201cSpartan\u201d) but I clearly added to my stash. <\/p>\n
\tI enjoy living small and having to deal with less. But moving from way too much to only what I need and\/or truly cherish is no small chore. The furniture and clothes were not hard to part with. But after the first large purge, I was facing piles and piles of perfectly good stuff that I could\/would\/may use. Good stuff, much of it small stuff, stuff I have no room for. Trivial examples \u2013 I had three bottles of dish washing soap. Under the kitchen sink in the RV there is room for one. Period. There were many bottles of spices – good ones that I might use one day. But I don\u2019t cook much, if ever. And then there was all that Tupperware, the baking pans. But my nemesis is paper \u2013 books, photos, my writing, personal business\u2026 Things I have yet to work through. Gratefully, a friend offered me space in an empty room in an empty house, and I randomly stuffed stuff there, in order to get out of the house in time for closing. Delaying for now the pain and frustration of dealing with these last layers of minutiae. I promise myself to complete the purge by Christmas. This Christmas.<\/p>\n
\tAnd now I\u2019m happily ensconced in my 280 SF travel trailer, parked near the water. Misty loves chasing her ball across pine cones and hiding in the palmetto. We\u2019ve watched osprey feeding near the RV, a raccoon washing breakfast from a log over the bayou, and a great blue heron hunched on a gnarled piece of drift wood. We studied bear scat and an as-yet-unidentified squashed snake.<\/p>\n
\tI\u2019ll stay in the area for most of the school year. In the mornings, I write or otherwise deal with life. I keep my granddaughter in the afternoons and thoroughly enjoy my job as taxi, homework monitor, and maker of snacks. Now that my house is again on wheels, I\u2019ll hook up and make short trips during the school year and then spend the summers out West.<\/p>\n
\tThe Bible explains that we \u201csee through a glass darkly.\u201d But lately I\u2019ve noticed that my glass has gotten a bit darker. Ah, another sign of aging. I\u2019ll have the first cataract removed next week and the second a month later. It\u2019s only been in recent history that we\u2019ve had the privilege of science improving aging eyes, and it is a privilege available in limited locations in the world. Without cataract surgery, I would finally become an old woman who can\u2019t see to drive \u2013 I\u2019d lose one of my most favored senses and loved activities. I look forward to the doctor changing out the \u201cglass darkly\u201d in my eyes. I\u2019ll remain an old woman, but one who drives a big pickup and loves to ride her motorcycle.
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<\/a>Misty in the backyard of the house<\/p><\/div>
<\/a>fog across the Bay, live oaks and palmettos<\/p><\/div>
<\/a>another incredible sunset across the Bay<\/p><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
10. Trying to stuff two tons of fertilizer into a quarter-ton pick up When I got back to Florida, I stepped into a whirlwind. Not a dust devil or the dilemma of dealing with too many miles. This was a … Continue reading